If I’m confused about Elena being confused on what brother she likes well the writers or Nina didn’t portray it last night. She seems like she’s still into Stefan way more than she shows that she’s into Damon. If we as an audience are suppose to feel for each brother, how come the writers only allow it to be clear as day with Stefan but completely off with Damon?

IT WAS GREAT!

Shrek though? A little harsh don’t you think.

Haven’t read any of this and now you’re making me want to skip it all. I mean, WTH really?!?

 I completely agree with you, it’s really disgusting and annoying.

Hey folks, let’s cut out the negative comments about actors’ looks. Thanks.

He gets all the emotional burdens. Alone and no one there to comfort him. I really dislike the fact that it’s been and still is Damon who does all the hard work yet Stefan is praised..

Yea, I was one of the one’s defending Ian yesterday. While I disagreed with the poster, I don’t think she was trying to insult Ian. She just didn’t think he fit the part of Damon and that he looked older than what the character was supposed too. Okay I get it. It kinda goes overboard one starts calling the actors/actresses names and what not. Then you’re just being rude and mean for no reason.

Speak it girl! Speak IT!

*Elena worse than Katherine*

What is interesting is that Elena seems to be petrified of her feelings for Damon.  He is the “unknown.”  It is like playing with fire and she is afraid she’ll get burned.  But she should remember that Damon was faithful in his love for Katherine for over 160 years — until he found out that she had rejected him.  Damon, once he gives his love, it is forever, and unconditionally.  That kind of unhesitating, mad passionate, all consuming love scares Elena.  For the love she shares with Stefan is constant, but in a safe, steady way.  It is never a raging out of control fire that threatens to consume her.  Loving Stefan allows Elena to be in control of her emotions, and not out of control.  But should she have to play it safe with love?

Julie Plec on Bonnie:
“She was very clearly under some sort of witchy influence, which is really Bonnie’s issue now,” Plec said of her complicity in turning Alaric. “It’s like ‘Oh man, I’ve got vampires telling me what to do; I’ve got other people telling me what to do; and now I’ve got my freakin– my “”sisters”– the witches telling me what to do. Where’s my free will? Where’s my choice?’ That’s going to impact her character going forward.” 

Will all this lead to Bonnie going Dark??? (pretty please with a cherry on top!!) :)

I’m really curious about what relatives are burried in the Salvatore tomb. I know the mom died a long time ago but i’d be sad if my best friend died where my mom was burried.

ஜ ۩ ஜ I Learnt A Few Lessons from “Do Not God Gentle” ஜ ۩ ஜ

There is no harm learning few lessons LOL:

۩It takes more than twice to be killed to get an apology from your bestie killer and whisky buddy

۩Drunk vampires can offer you a dream with rainbows and rolling green hills when your about to die…

۩Killing someone out of their misery is apparently referred to as “Mercy Killing”

۩Girls like Elena think like men these days ~ you can ask your ex out after making out with His brother.

۩Small town boys, small town world are not enough for girls like me.

۩No one needs crap speeches for being man of the house after…

۩Damn! Ex boyfriends can be sweet at times of vulnerability

۩Having mama drama like Klaus just rage at her corpse to feel much better

۩Being a witch comes at a price as you just have to be ready to lose your grandmother, mother, a boyfriend and soul to protect your friends.

۩With a witch like Esther all you need is bones of the human Salvatore family resting around, a hand and few drops of blood of a doppelganger to have A True Vampire hunter made…

۩Horrible advice can be very useful especially if it is from a girl you used to date.

۩Having two hybrid hotties fight over you extremely HOT.

۩Never knew Salt is a very handy accessory!

I’m so with you on this. They should have Bonnie go dark at least for a while.

Like Bex said to Mikael Klaus wasn’t born a killer. Mikael and Esther turned them all into monsters. They had no right to decide their childrens’ fates like that then later for her to say “oops I shouldn’t have done that guess I better kill them now” is her deciding their fates for them yet again. What a controlling witch! Probably trying to buy her way into Heaven by “restoring balance to nature”. She didn’t care before about nature so it can only be for selfish reasons now.

I think that’s why sometimes I have a hard time sympathizing with Stefan’s character because in the end he’ll always be considered the best.

Actually, I don’t think it came out of his pocket, I think Esther being a conveniently super powerful, all-knowing, annoying witch possessed Bonnie to take it from him after he fell on the ground. You notice Bonnie was already holding a stake when she went inside the crypt. I had to rewatch that part because I wasn’t really paying attention.
Anyways, I agree about Caroline. It wasn’t a surprise for me that she’s on Stefan’s side, but this is about Elena and her decision. And I find it hilarious that nobody acknowledges all he’s done this season. I mean, yes, Damon made a lot of mistakes in the past but people are only eager to forgive and forget when it comes to Stefan. Like someone excellently pointed out, both Damon and Stefan do good and bad, but Damon is constantly judged for the bad and Stefan praised for the good. I don’t think that’ll ever change. Also, I had to laugh when Caroline used the word epic. Do we really need to be reminded of that all the time? You’d think people can judge for themselves if they find their love story epic or not. Oh well…

I know right? The word “epic” has been so overused to describe SE that it’s become barf worthy. I never expected Caroline to be anything but a Stefan supporter but as you’ve mentioned this is supposed to be Elena’s decision and she’s letting some bossy vamp friend who doesn’t have a great track record herself to push her into which way she just HAS to go. Like Caroline who jumps from guy to guy would even know what constitutes an “epic” love. She is just a controlling vamp who knows how to push her friends around that includes Matt. No wonder she needs someone arrogant like Tyler.

You know you’re right about the stake. I completely missed that but Bonnie did have it. Good catch.

Speaking of the forgiving Stefan thing, I’m rewatching season 1 during my workouts. I just saw “Children of the Damned” where they flashback to Stefan letting his father in on Katherine being a vamp despite Damon begging him not to and Stefan promising he wouldn’t. Everyone seems to conveniently forget the times Stefan betrayed Damon especially early on. Stefan admitted to Elena in this episode that it was his fault what happened with Katherine because he betrayed Damon’s trust. She just poo pooed it away with a “you didn’t do anything wrong comment”. Seriously? And how blantantly mean their father was to Damon about him being a disappointment for leaving the army. Here’s a thought people maybe just maybe Damon behaved the way he did in the past because everyone he was suppose to trust either betrayed him or didn’t love and accept him. Duh! The first person to actually show Damon could trust him was Ric. I think he trusted Ric before he trusted Elena. Elena lied to Damon a few times he trusted her early on for Stefan. Well we see they’ve now killed off the only person he could truly trust and have turned him into the complete opposite of what he was leaving Damon once again with no one. After everything he’s done to redeem himself he is still getting screwed over even by Elena and his brother (I’m referring to Stefan sending him on that trip with Elena to have his feelings toyed with only to return and have Stefan take Elena to the dance).