thank you my dear :)

Hopefully he’ll be back around a little more after winter break since they’re finished filming Cult.

I like knowing where you come from too because I like hearing how others feel. I think that Stefan knows elena better. They have a deeper connection. Damon is fun and is better right now but in the beginning he didn’t care. What if Damon’s motives are to get back at Stefan for having Katherine choose him over damon. Maybe!.. I want stefan to be good again and all is well in mystic falls. Stefan always loved elena and always will.

Something more to ponder about this whole Silas business.
I guess the hiatus made me a prolific dreamer:-).

All we know about Silas is what Shane has been preaching. Now, let’s speculate in a different direction.
If we suppose Shane is Silas what could possibly make him come to MF?
One big reason is Bonnie as he stated himself. The other reasons are shady to say the least.

Shane being Silas means he is an immortal we just don’t know what kind of immortal he is yet.
It could be that he is a special immoral who can stand in the sun without being toasted.

Next question is: what does Shane really want?
He spoke of a tomb (we already had that in TVD) and of a buried Silas (like the buried Katherine who wasn’t) and a “cure”.
Through JP we know that the cure is very bad news.
My “idea” is: Qetsia stripped Silas of his magical powers and buried them in a tomb.
Shane if he is Silas wants his powers back and rise his lover from the dead we haven’t see that on TVD yet).

Klaus seems to be after this power. I guess becoming a true immortal has its appeal too. Even the Originals aren’t 100% immortal as we discussed yesterday. A 100% immortal equipped with powerful dark magic must be Klaus’s dream come true.

What do you guys think about this possibility:-)?

 I have no doubt that Stefan got hooked watching Elena those 3 months he took watching her over that summer.  I can understand it, Elena is pretty special, and those were likely the hardest 3 months of her life, what with her parents death.  I do not know how anyone would not be drawn to want to know her, sooth her pain again.  I just wish he would have met her before that moment.  Elena before her parents death sometimes steps out to play, but Stefan got to know the traumatized orphaned girl instead.  Finaly became too much, that need to know her more closely and the beginning of school was the perfect opportunity.  She was just starting to waken again, and come on, who can resist the mysterious stranger.  She has a thing for edgy, dangerous, mystery guys.  Stefan eventually fell hard, and helped pull Elena out of those Darker months.

Damon has a different perspective on Elena.  She is different with him, less reserved.  She took the opportunity to let go of that traumatized girl she was and be more herself on that trip to Atlanta.  It’s unfortunate that Stefan never really gets to see that side of her.  When she is with Stefan, she’s always being careful, and Stefan understands her pain, allowing her to confront that and try dealing with it.  I do not know why Elena does not let go around Stefan, his first bout with human blood might have scared her a bit.  It is nice Damon was there for her during that troubling time.  It was a safe relationship, just them, alone in that house trying to be there for Stefan detoxing.  Again, it is a shame that Stefan did not really get to see that side of her either.  She certainly does enjoy having fun, I’m glad Damon is there to give her the security to let her be comfortable to do that.  She never has to worry about Damon losing control at a party, he may be callous, but at least he is constant.

I’m sure there was a point where Damon was motivated by revenge and messing with Stefan, but after the events around Opening the tomb, Elena kinda became his only real friend, and he became protective, rather then exploitative of her.  His motivations have been consistently in her favor since.  Honestly, how can you blame him, Elena is pretty awesome.

Stefan desperately wants to be noble.  The problem is that his nobility is tenuously built over an lethal addicts darker core.  It’s got ot be hard on him, trying to be good, wanting to be good, and yet, constantly on guard from his based instincts, when he is literally constantly surrounded by his particular form of heroin.  I’m fairly impressed with Stefan’s determination; I can’t imagine how hard it is for him to not flip the switch rather then feel that constant aching guilt.  Because he is so noble of desire, it has got to be particularly hard on him.  I so want him to find peace with himself as well.

Stefan will certainly always love Elena.  How could he not?  I think Elena however will always have to be on guard around him.  As much as she wishes otherwise, she can never really let all her walls down with him anymore.  She has learned too much about him to be able to do that.  Both Stefan and she has spoken about that around him, in different circumstances.  It is also a shame that Stefan never got to see Elena during the 6 months he was gone.  Man she blossomed under her determination to help him.  It is a shame he missed it.  Damon however had a front row seat.  In fact Damon has had a front row seat for almost every aspect of Elena she has shown.  Elena has a pretty amazing tolerance for alcohol, proven at Bree’s bar, but Stefan thinks she is a light weight.  Stefan did not think she would survive killing a person, but Damon knew better, and she did in fact survive, and move on rather quickly.  He’s seen the survivor.  Stefan thought she would move on eventually, Damon knew better, seeing her fight so hard for him.  Damon knows her favorite drinks, and her favorite colors.  Stefan has been wrong more then once.  Stefan dismisses her teddy bear, Damon’s named it.  I cannot agree that Stefan knows her better, because she does not really let him, and that is unfortunate.

You explained to me your side, so I wanted to return the favor.

oh william you are always right and romantic. Excellent !

Damon always confesses that he is too selfish but not for Elena. But Stefan can’t,he is too sure in his person and that is very bad in real life. Damon also has done many things to save both of them,we can’t count it.We saw three episodes of Damon and Elena’s being lovers and and whole 2 seasons of Stefan’s and Elena’s,and so who makes her happier?
I think Elena trusts Damon more than Stefan,it’s obvious and we can’t deny it,even Stefan can’t denies it. I truly say that I’m Damon’s fan,I love him very very much,but I see his wrong sides and good sides too. So all you(Stefan’s fans) must confess it too. 
And you are right,Stefan will always love her,even if he is with another women,but whose love is stronger,when a man loves you when you are with him or when a man loves you when you are with another man and sees your kisses,hugs,words(I love you) to him and so so….whose love is stronger? how do you think guys?

 ((Bows))  You honor me, my lady.

And you are right William. I like your posts and essays about the characters and their dynamics.
This Delena thing has been going on for a while and it was so pervasive that it became natural to watch. That gives me some renewed hope and faith for Delena in the future and hopefully as end game.

To Damon fans hating on Stefan.
He seems like there is a point we’ve never talk about.
Damon fan are so busy hating on Stefan that they’re so blind to see Damon’s actions.
I want you to explain me this.
Damon has always said “he can’t be selfish with Elena”.
If he really knows her, do you think he would told her “vampire eat people”. He wanted her to drink human blood from the vein.
He made her a vampire and took advantage on her at the party/in his bed.
He
played a part in Elena/Stefan breakup, you can’t deny that because all
the first lying was because she wanted to drink human blood as Damon
told her.
Then, SB or no SB, if he lets her drink animals blood like
she was supposed to do as she don’t want to hurt people, she would
probably be on animals blood now.
So Damon was SELFISH with her since day one or two of her transformation.

…and a second post as I just found this: “The last thing a great immortal hybrid wants to be is a werewolf again. (JP)”.

So the “cure” will give the power/opportunity to cure more than one vampire at a time. It sounds like the “cure” will be something which makes all vampires “non-vampires” – whatever that will mean… !

You seems to really love Damon for ignoring the fact he wanted her to be a vampire by hurting people.
I needed to explain my point of view because you all said he is not selfish with her and he can’t be selfish with her. But it’s not true. So you can stop using this argument when you are comparing Stefan to Damon because I can’t stand all the negativity toward Stefan across all the post I read.

One thing: we are not watching the same show and the second: you hate Damon so much that you can wright things that isn’t true and it seems true only for you. You have to watch the shoe carefuly and you’ll understand. I think you are only listening Caroline and Stefan’s words,which is absolutely wrong.