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I never said that Stefan and Elena have never hurt Damon, I said I can’t argue with the fact that they have. And even though I wish no one would get hurt I’ve resigned myself to the fact that no matter who ends up with who someone is going to be crushed.

Elena didn’t know what bloodsharing was and the only time she’s kissed Damon is when she and Stefan had broken up.  I’m not saying that there’s nothing between Damon and Elena because there is and it’s been obvious since S1.  But Elena has stayed true to Stefan, stood by him, helped him, supported him and to say now that she doesn’t deserve him just seems ridiculous. Of course she does.  

If they do break up, it’s not just because of issues related to Damon. They have problems that are inherent in their relationship and, until they address them, they can never be “epic”.  Who knows what the writers are going to do with them in the long run, but if they want to make them realistic at all, they need to have them start facing their problems instead of sweeping everything under the rug.

Well, I think, “technically” with Katherine, the brother’s got into each other’s girlfriend’s pants. :D Confusing!

I agree that Stefan is sometimes deliberately hurtful to Damon and he does tend to point out all of his faults and flaws, both to him and to others.  To me it seems more about his own insecurity and jealousy and not a lack of love for his brother. Stefan isn’t blind about what’s between Damon and Elena – not since really early on.  I’m not a huge Stefan fan, but I do like those rare brotherly moments they sometimes have.  I really hope the writers spend some extra time working on that relationship this season.

 I did not forget a thing.  Damon did not go on a rampage of revenge against Klaus and threaten Elena’s life with a plan to drive her off Wickery Bridge and turning her into a vampire to end the chance of more hybrids … that was all Stefan.  Stefan made the choice of getting revenge instead of going back to Elena, which he could have done.  Once again Elena was not Stefan’s first choice.   I don’t care if Stefan wants to work with Klaus, but I think he should tell Damon and Elena what is going on.  Keeping secrets is never a good thing and it will come back and bite him in the ass. As a matter of fact, I’m pretty sure Jeremy will remember Stefan compelling him, which is just another thing Stefan did secretly behind Elena’s back and she certainly will not be happy that Stefan took Jeremy to Klaus to read and draw a map that is on the body of the lethal vampire slayer, Connor.   Stefan has a history of not being forthcoming so his actions in keeping the “cure” a secret and all of his actions that will go along with his secret is actually right in sync with his personality.

Damon is my favorite character on the show.  I will always be his cheerleader and I would like for him to find a bit of happiness.  I would like to see how the Damon and Elena part of the triangle would be presented.  So far the writers have denied the fans of that one.  Unless the fans have an opportunity to  see it, there is no way to judge whether it would be good or not.  In saying that, please do not confuse me of being strictly a Delena fan because that would be incorrect.  I would love to see Damon with Rebekah, I liked him with Rose and I see no reason not to bring Katherine back and let her mix it up a bit with Damon. 

 As for the “cure” to change Elena back into a human, No …just NO!   Please! I beg the writers not to do that!  In that regard Stefan needs to live an eternity with the choice he made.

Stefan is not my favorite character, nor do I see him being one in the near future.  As a matter of fact he is not even a close second because that goes to Klaus and his Original siblings. I find Stefan to be a mixed bag of weird, especially when he is pretending to be someone or something he is not and all the while being judgmental towards others, especially Damon.  Stefan let Elena die by not choosing her life first. There is nothing epic about that. As for the whole “free will” argument, that falls on my deaf ears because that will never fly with me when it comes to a life or death situation and saving the person you are suppose to love.  I will leave it up to the Stefan fans to toot his horn over that one, or try to sweep it under the rug, whichever the case may be.

I think Damon and Klaus make a much better team when it comes to fighting the enemy, but I guess if Klaus wants to be secretive ….. Stefan is his guy.

 I am still waiting for Stefan to do something “right”  that I will like … and well, Damon never does anything wrong that I don’t like.  So there is that…

 Elena didn’t know about blood sharing, but Damon did.  The only thing that has been obvious is that ever since Katherine told Damon no Damon has gone full force after Elena.  Remember when Damon and Katherine were making out and Damon said something like.  I’ll forget the past, just tell me you want me or something to that affect.  After she said no, Damon went and tried to force himself on Elena and Jeremy ended up with a broken neck.  As for Stefan I’m sure it doesn’t help there epic love when he has to look over his shoulder constantly at his brother trying to steal his girlfriend.

 After what Elena said to Stefan when she was on the porch she would have chosen death and still might kill herself.  Stefan is trying to save Elena’s life by giving her the one thing she wants more then anything else, her human life back.  Stefan now knows there are times to respect Elena’s wishes and times when he should go with what he wants.  Stefan doesn’t want to force himself or his belief’s on Elena and shows her respect and gives her a voice in her own life.  Any guy who forces himself on a woman is not a man.

 The last time Stefan did what Elena wanted she ended up a vampire and everyone came down on him.  He wants to give Elena her human life back or maybe he doesn’t want to get her hopes up in case Klaus isn’t telling the truth.  I think Stefan should tell the Mystic Falls gang.  But maybe he thinks if he does Klaus will follow threw on his threats.

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Not just Season 1.  As usual Damon right Stefan wrong. You do make me laugh.

 I am not sure Elena and Stefan will actually break up, but they will probably go through a rough time.  I’m pretty sure Elena will “act” on her feelings for Damon and they will get all hot and steamy, but then again that is expected when there is a love triangle.  Elena is suppose to love them both and be in a love relationship with both. 

I don’t think people don’t think Stefan is capable of being the hero in this – he’s smart and he’s much more rational than Damon sometimes. But he needs to fill in the rest of the group. They have a right to know what’s going on.