Oh gosh, now that you mentioned it, she was treating him so much better when he was at his worst. Everything really is reversed. And I get everything people are saying about her being lost, confused, without a family. I really do. But it’s still annoying.

Great Episode! I really wan’t Katherine to come back into the picture she makes it more interesting. I wan’t to hear more about Klaus and Elijha’s love for the first Petrova. I feel like they should start bringing all of the story lines(bonnies mom, wooden sign thing,gilbert ring.) back together for the end of the season. I’m so excited to see how they finish season three!

I would not jump to the conclusion that Nina is a smoker.  There was a photo shoot where Nina had cigarettes and she was seen smoking at the photo shoot.  Her mother spoke out and said not to make an assumption regarding Nina having cigarettes at a photo shoot because one photo shoot does not a smoker make.  She went on to say that Nina was the one that had a big impact to help her stop smoking. 

As for her raspy voice lately, it could be from a cold, or from the miserable Atlanta pollen.  Everything is blooming and it started earlier than usual.  Also, Nina, Paul and the two actors that will be playing her parents have been spending a lot of their free time in the water practicing for the underwater scene coming up.  Lots of scuba diving stuff going on in Atlanta. Ian and Nina are both PADI certified, but Paul is not.
Although, Ian and Nina scuba diving together in the ocean is a lot different than going into murky water of a lake.

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Sorry about that man. Sometimes I can come across as too much of a guy on some of my comments. Occasionally I forget that there’s a lot of women on this site. I certainly don’t mean to insult anyone and I’m far from a sexist person. 

 I wish the end of season 3 would come like never, because that means a nother 4 months hiatus, but otherwise you are right, I think it will be interesting to learn more about Bonnie´s mum. She run away years ago and now she does again. Why! And where does she think she can run to and what about Jamie. Does she leave him back this time, too?
And what will happen to my most favourite human on the show (Ric) The picture GP posted doesn´t look like he´s going to have all “rainbows and unicorns” (or what did Damon say?) Poor man, but from the perspective of an actor it must be great for him to finally get some scary screentime. He is so good in what he does, he deserves a cool storyline.

Amen to that. Guess we’ll just have to wait and see what they have in store for us for the rest of the season. Hopefully a semi-well balanced & happy Stefan! No more blood binges!

That’s too funny. That name I would have known. Haha

That’s the heartbreaking part because he probably does think he deserves to be treated that way. I mean when he was human he allowed Katherine to treat him as second best. He told Elena last season that he didn’t deserve her so he probably expects her to treat him bad.

I agree. It’s unrealistic to expect Stefan to have no other woman besides Elena. As Shannon mentioned I’m sure over the length of time he has been a vamp he has had lots of other women. Seriously if Damon could have tons of women over the years while he was waiting for Katherine then it’s reasonable that Stefan should have some fun now. As someone else said the guy isn’t a monk. I still think he needs a vamp girl not another human.

They turned their chemistry into hatred for each other. It’s hard to imagine turning that around with so few remaining eps left. As you said they’ve dragged out their fighting for longer than I expected. I had thought they’d gradually start being civil and it looked like Damon was trying to do that this ep in talking to Elena about helping Ric but she just keeps getting madder at him. I don’t know why they feel the need to have something drastic happen to him for her to finally be nice if in deed that is what happens next. Something I do find interesting though. Despite her being mad at him i’ve noticed a change in what she assumes about his behavior from last season. She used to always assume the worst. Now you notice when he slept with Bex she asked him if he stopped taking vervain giving him the benefit of the doubt that he’d been compelled into that behavior. She was upset about him not showing sympathy for what Bonnie and her mom were going thru but she knew he did it to save her as she’d mentioned to Matt. It wasn’t just to be evil. She asked Damon why he stood by while Stefan fed on that girl instead of automatically assuming Damon forced him. So somewhere in there behind her meanness she knows he has changed. Also found it interesting that despite disagreeing with Damon on Stefan needing to learn control of drinking HB she must know he is right because she asked Stefan how he was doing with it vs telling him to go back on the bunny diet. Just some things I found interesting.

He’ll be ok. The gang won’t let him go down without a fight so to speak. I love his BFF relationship with Damon. Damon accepts without judgement the “accidental killer” in him and plans on helping his bro get back on track.

 I sincerely hope you are right. 

Please share those sentiments with Kate. She thinks I’m sexist.

Hi Dman, I don’t find your comments sexist either.  Just a man’s opinion.

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Yeah, I’ve decided to give Elena a break. You should read some of mine & Joan’s comments on what we want for Stefan’s future. Pretty funny stuff! Hoping this Thursday’s episode will be better since we will be going on yet ANOTHER hiatus! Geesh! SPN- The Leviathan’s story is definitely not my favorite story line at all, but I suppose with any show that you like you have to take the bad with the good! I can’t believe you’ve already come this far! You’re so lucky you didn’t have to wait out every year for it to come back to see what would happen after the finales! I am SO jealous! Only 5 more episodes of this season. We’re still waiting on word if it will be renewed, I think they will but you never know.