Posted by Crissy Calhoun | September 18, 2011, 10:37 (EST) | 46 Comments
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Vampire Diaries: The Birthday (Season Premiere) Recap - Don't Let GoAnd we’re back! Our favorite show has returned with a killer episode (pun intended, sweet peas) that jumps ahead two months from the finale to a Mystic Falls that’s trying its darnedest to be a normal, boring human town. But moving on from the past proves to be impossible — and we wouldn’t want it any other way.

The opening scenes at Gilbert house reminded me of the very first episode of The Vampire Diaries: in the first of a number of echoes of the pilot, a grieving Elena forces herself to face the day, makes sure her brother’s on track (“Aim high”) and helps out her slightly inept pseudo guardian. In As I Lay Dying, Elena told Jer that they had to start going through the motions of their lives, so that at some point it would feel normal again. And it seems like that’s how they’ve spent the summer. Jeremy working at the Mystic Grill, Elena . . . waiting for clues from Sheriff Forbes. It’s no wonder that Caroline is concerned about her friend not living her life: Elena seems to be stuck in a kind of Stefan-less limbo, holding on to the shred of hope that Stefan is still alive and not already one of Klaus’s innumerable victims.

And as much as Damon has scoffed at Elena’s attempts to track Klaus, he’s actually just as determined to find his brother — and by keeping his efforts from Elena, he’s protecting her from the truth about Stefan, letting her hold on to the Stefan she loves, the Stefan who would never dismember and reassemble victims or kill Andie just to drive home his point to his brother.

Meet the Ripper: Who knew that Stefan’s nickname would turn out to be literal? Shudder. The role reversal from season 1 to 3 is complete with Stefan delivering Damon’s “Hello, brother” line and racking up an impressive body count, while Damon covers up Stefan’s bloody tracks. It’s more than a little bit cool to see the transformation from the Stefan we know and love to this unflinching killer. But as much as Stefan plays his part as Klaus’s dutiful henchman (killing the women in the farmhouse, torturing Ray, and who knows what else in the past two months), it’s clear to Klaus that Stefan is doing just that — playing his part. He hasn’t given in to his dark side; he’s still holding on to his moral compass, his love for his brother and for Elena — however tenuously. Damon warns Stefan that it’s a fine line he’s walking, that if he goes on too much longer or gets any deeper into his ripper self, there won’t be a Stefan left to save. And Stefan knows it. As if on a leash tethered to Klaus, Stefan can only escape as far as the parking lot; his façade is breaking after his encounter with Damon and Klaus’s words that ring true — every time he feeds, the blood makes it easier to let go.

It’s a testament to the writers and Paul Wesley’s command of his character that we are still sympathizing with Stefan after watching him gruesomely murder three women and torture a werewolf. Stefan’s phone call to Elena was perfectly heartbreaking. (Was anyone else terrified that she was going to miss his call?) She knows it’s him though he can’t speak to her, and she says just what they both need to hear: never let go. This show is never more amazing than when it goes to dark twisted places while maintaining its firm grasp on the emotional heart of the story, the motivating forces that drive its characters to such extremes.

Elena’s faith in Stefan is solid at the end of The Birthday despite Damon coming clean to her about what Stefan’s done — those are his victims up and down the eastern seaboard, not Klaus’s. But having witnessed a murder firsthand, Damon’s faith is shaken, if not destroyed. Stefan had been Andie’s defender and, while it seems like Damon’s “complicated dynamic” with his “fake compelled girlfriend” was on slightly more equitable terms than last we saw them, the safe bet would have been on Damon killing Andie one of these days, not Stefan. In a quiet moment before the raucous party, Damon returned Elena’s necklace to her, the symbol of the “good Stefan” and the love shared between Stefan and Elena if ever there was one. But by the end of the night — after Andie’s death and Stefan’s insistent growl that he let him go — Damon loses it with Elena, finally telling her that they were idiots to hope for Stefan’s safe return. Elena doesn’t want to hear the truth about Stefan’s victims, and tellingly clutches her necklace. She chooses to hold on.

Alone in Stefan’s room, Damon tears up the place that stores all of Stefan’s memories, revealing how upset Damon is by Stefan’s dark turn. Though it wasn’t his choice, Damon is the cause of Stefan losing himself — all to save Damon’s life, his little brother has given up his identity, his values, and the woman he loves and he’s descended into a dark prison guarded by the biggest and potentially most indestructible baddie of all time. No wonder Damon’s drinking champagne before breakfast.

The new normal: The rest of the Mystic Falls gang provided the much-needed levity in The Birthday — though, being The Vampire Diaries, no one gets to have too much trouble-free fun. Caroline and Tyler have spent the summer together, with people (notably Matt) making the assumption that they’re together-together. Not quite yet. In a hilarious series of scenes, the tension between these two supernaturally horny teenagers is palpable. And thank god that while they had to wait for two months, we didn’t even have to wait a full episode before they exploded (so to speak). As much as I loved Matt and Caroline together, Caroline and Tyler have serious sparkage. May Werewolf Road and Vampire Boulevard meet again. . . .

Just as in last season, Caroline is a standout in the episode from her friendshippy moments with Elena to her drunken use of her vampire skills at the party — out of the way, random jock guy. Matt reminds Caroline that she and Tyler are supposed to be, like, mortal enemies — as much as they’re pretending to be normal, they’re actually quite subversive with their inter-species relationship. The new normal in Mystic Falls is quite abnormal. Even Sheriff Forbes has changed alliances: she’s feeding information about vampire attacks to Caroline and company to help them find Klaus and Stefan. And that leaves Carol Lockwood to maintain the old founding family way: vampires are still the enemy to her. Does she know better than to turn to Sheriff Forbes for help with outed vampire Caroline? Is Mrs. Lockwood acting alone or does she have a new anti-vampire posse? Will people ever quit with the surprise attacks on Caroline? Please?

Jeremy’s been playing at normalcy all summer, keeping the fact that he sees his dead girlfriends from everyone, including out-of-town Bonnie. In the same way that Elena is drifting, purposeless except in her hunt for Stefan, Jeremy seems to be in a kind of limbo — his attempt at a mundane human experience interrupted by his ghostly companions. Matt describes Jer as on a “downward spiral” and himself as “out of it;” neither one can let go of the past or quite figure out where they fit in the new supernatural normal. Jeremy opens up to Matt about seeing things he’s not supposed to, but Matt isn’t ready (or sober enough) to hear that Vicki’s ghost is real and not imagined. I loved seeing more of Matt in this episode, and hopefully with his new friendship with Jeremy and the sure-to-be complicated ghost business, there will be even more over the season.

And what of Alaric? The self-proclaimed parent’s worst nightmare, the chaperone teacher from hell. I literally yelled at my TV when he packed up his things and told Elena he was leaving. As much as I feel like the Gilbert kids do need Mr. Saltzman as a role model, no matter how much bourbon he drinks, he’s not going to let go of Jenna and move on with his life while he’s sleeping on their couch. Another heartbreaker of a scene.

Elena’s on her own for now, holding down the Gilbert fort and holding on to hope that Stefan will come home — in her lifetime. It’s the dawn of a new day for The Vampire Diaries, and with The Birthday it promises to be even more gruesome and heartbreaking than it was in seasons past.

Compelling Moment: Elena and Stefan’s phone call. That crack in Elena’s voice, the way Stefan holds back his tears and says nothing — it’s almost cruel how powerfully emotional this short scene was. Our show is back!

The Rules: Klaus appears to be turning Ray into a hybrid by following the usual human-to-vampire three-step transition: Klaus feeds the werewolf his blood, kills him, and presumably once Ray resurrects, he’ll be forced to drink human blood. Caroline and Tyler experiment with an alternative method for creating werewolf-vampire hybrids. . . . Klaus leaves the wolfsbane torturing to Stefan. As a hybrid, Klaus is vulnerable to both vervain and wolfsbane.

Foggy moments:

  • Klaus hunts down werewolf Ray Sutton, torturing him for information on his pack’s location. Is that why Klaus has seemingly forgotten about the werewolf in Mystic Falls who escaped sacrifice — because Tyler has no pack of his own? (Is the old Jules and Brady pack completely wiped out?)
  • Do locator spells work on vampires? Bonnie could have used Damon’s blood and something of Stefan’s (you know he styles that hair somehow) to track Stefan the way we’ve seen people track down Elena in the past. Too bad Bonnie’s on vacay with her uber-boring muggle relatives.

 
Other thoughts & questions to ponder before The Hybrid (302):

  • Two months at the Gilbert house, and Alaric still can’t work the coffee maker.
  • Klaus letting Stefan leave and trusting him to return nicely parallels the similar moment in Elijah and Elena’s relationship. In Klaus, she had to leave him to deal with Jenna but returned as promised. Here, instead of being tentative allies like Elijah and Elena, Klaus and Stefan are master and slave.
  • “You know I died, right? And Bonnie used magic to bring me back to life.” “Ya, Elena told me.” Matt is hilariously deadpan about supernatural stuff.
  • R.I.P. Andie Star, Action News. At least she spent her final days exercising a little more independence and control over herself, if those moments in the morning were any indication. Will Damon tell Elena about his run-in with Stefan and how Andie died?
  • No mention of Katherine. Has she been seen since leaving the Salvatore house at the end of As I Lay Dying?
  • Vicki asks Jeremy to help her. What does she need him to do? Are she and Anna on their ghostly quest together? Will they wear the same outfits for all eternity?

 
How happy are you that TVD is back?! Sound off below with your likes/dislikes, theories, and predictions!

Crissy Calhoun is the author of Love You to Death: The Unofficial Companion to The Vampire Diaries and Love You to Death 2: The Unofficial Companion to The Vampire Diaries. When not obsessively re-watching CW shows, she works as managing editor at ECW Press in Toronto. She blogs at crissycalhoun.com and tweets @crissycalhoun.

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  • Elclaws

    Great analysis as always Crissy! Though I would have liked to see your thoughts on Damon and Elena’s interaction and how the dynamic of their friendship/relationship is evolving. Hoping that your comments on this are reserved for the next few episodes :)

  • Anonymous

    Loved the recap-as always!
    I think Damon was doing the right thing when he decided to keep his information about Stefan a secret because Elena wouldn’t want to hear that and would probably block it out. I also think your right about Damon wanting Elena to have faith in the Stefan she knows and loves because he knows Stefan isn’t himself right now.
    I felt so sorry for Alaric in this ep, he is still trying to find a way to get over Jenna’s death while also trying to be a good role model for Jeremy and Elena because he knows that what Jenna would have wanted.
    I loved the phonecall between Stefan and Elena, it was so heartbreakingly beautiful. I am glad the writers decided to include a scene between them because even with everything going on (Stefan running around the country with Klaus, Jeremy seeing ghosts and Andie dying just to name a few…)the underlying story is the love story between Damon, Elena and Stefan.
    Loved the ep and I’m so glad its finally back-it seems like its been forever:)…

  • Anonymous

    First & foremost- Nice recap Chrissy:) I would like to add a few things (of course, I always do)….

    In your foggy moments portion of you post you mentioned Klaus forgetting about Tyler..he didn’t forget about him, Tyler doesn’t have a pack. Nor is there a pack in MF….apparently, Klaus wants an entire pack of werewolves to transform into hybrids…by next week’s promo, it seems that his “three step process” is a little more difficult than he originally thought. Those hybrids don’t look right to me, they look more like zombies….more on this in a moment.

    Also, I too would have liked to have read more on the changing dynamic between Damon & Elena. I thought it was pretty cool that Tyler pointed out to Elena, from a guy’s perspective, that Damon was “into her” and that she’s sending out, unintentionally I’m sure, mixed signals. Tyler’s comments really can’t be ignored, so I’m hoping soon that Elena will stop ignoring the elephant in the room. I like the fact that Damon was trying to keep the fact that Stefan was the one doing the killing from Elena. It showed that he was concerned about her feelings. I also like the fact that, other than teasing her with his naked self (he-he), he wasn’t really doing anything other than trying to protect her and be her friend. Giving Elena her necklace for her birthday showed he understands where she stands. She needed something that meant something to her that reminded her of Stefan, in other words, something to hold onto…..I guess Damon can “be the better man” when he wants to, specifically when it comes to Elena.

    I also do not think the roles for the brothers have reversed as much as some would like to think. Although Damon has killed often, he’s killing like a vampire would kill. I mean, he’s not ripping the bodies apart. I wouldn’t expect Damon to jump into the “I’m going to do whatever Elena wants just cause she’s Elena” role. If anything, I think Damon is going to have to become more ruthless to protect those he now cares about. If that means telling a few lies for the greater good, keeping a few details to himself, taking out a few people whom he considers a threat…I don’t think he’s going to hesitate in doing any of those things. Stefan, however, has given himself over to his blood addiction. Is he trying to keep Klaus away from Mystic Falls and away from his brother & Elena? Yes, but how long before he decides to flip that switch so he doesn’t have to feel the guilt anymore? Something else I picked up on…..when Damon & Ric where in the house in Tennessee… Damon said it was “the damnedest thing”, apparently Stefan gives into his bloodlust, BLACKS OUT, and RIPS HIS VICTIMS APART…..hmmm, doesn’t that sound like something a werewolf would do? Think about it, why did Klaus target Stefan specifically? Why was it so important for Klaus to take Stefan along as a wingman? What is the tie that binds the Originals to the Salvatores? This is all connected, mark my words.

    Now, back to Klaus’s plan to build his hybrid race….it is obviously not going to work out like Klaus thought it would. My guess is the “three step process” is going to be a big NO GO……so what is it that Klaus is going to have to do in order to build his hybrid race?

    As to Stefan calling Elena….while heartbreaking, is he really doing her any favors in the long run? He’s already giving into his blood lust. What’s going to happen when he jumps in all the way? How bad is it going to get for him? Is it really fair to keep Elena’s hope alive? What if Klaus had heard her voice on the phone? He would then have another way of keeping Stefan in line via his love not only for Damon, but for Elena, too. Stefan is in a world full of trouble right now, and it’s not looking to good for the younger Salvatore brother at the moment:(

    I’m not a big fan of the whole Forwood thing. It would’ve have been nice to see their relationship build a bit before Caroline jumped into bed with Tyler, maybe then I would be a bigger fan? Instead, it came across as a little slutty considering how awesome Caroline was last year. And look where it got her….vervained….again. Speaking of that, just how did Mrs. Lockwood know Caroline was a vampire?

    I kinda like where they have Ric & Jeremy this season. The ghost (that I personally don’t believe are just ghosts) storyline is going to be interesting. As far as Ric goes, he’s taking Jenna’s death hard. But, I have utter faith he’s going to man up and give the Gilbert kids a helping hand. I just hope the writers don’t blow the hole bromance thing Ric has with Damon in the process.

    All in all, this episode set the tone for this season. It’s going to be heartbreaking, it’s going to be brutal, and it’s going to be a thrill ride….so buckle up my TVD family, we’re in for a hell of a ride:)

  • Inkprincess31

     I really love this review. It sums up the first episode and a whole lot more. Awesome. :))

  • Kiki

    about that tracking spell… at the end of season 1 Bonnie said to Stefan “one more trop of innocent blood and I will kill Damon and I don’t care if I have to kill you too” I’m sure Damon knows about that and doesn’t want Bonnie to know what’s going on with Stefan

  • Mox

    The vampire-ghosts deff have something to do with Klaus… Maybe he’s keeping them captive in some ghost-purgatory realm…  That’s all I’ll say.  I also wondered why Damon didn’t tell Elena about Andie Star Action News.  I mean he fessed up to all the other stuff.  As a Delena fan I would have liked that but I get it, he’s trying to be all better-manish for Elena.  Jer and Matt smoking a joint was lol but Damon’s “is it a good stash” was even more lol.  I got kinda mad at Alaric for leaving those poor lil Gilberts house.  yeah yeah I know he’s not their family but Elena looked like an abandoned puppy when he was telling her.  Caroline was heaven this epi.  I might be a sadist for saying this but I want Stefan to be even more EVIL cuz I like where he’s going with it.

  • Rose-Petals

    Hey, did anyone read the synopsis for the next couple of episodes. 
    (if not don’t read a head POSSIBLE SPOILERS)

    It seems as if Caroline won’t be getting a rescue team until episode 303. Why? Because for 302 if said that Tyler still doesn’t know what is going on with Caroline has a confrontation with his mother. And then for episode 303 if saids that Tyler worries about Caroline and turns to sheriff Forbes.

    Poor Caroline.

  • Anon

    I agree that it needed to be explained why Bonnie hasn’t done a tracking spell to find Stefan. Sure, she’s on holiday with her relatives, but has she been there the whole summer? Could Elena not send her something of Stefan’s and have her do it from there? It is the plothole from hell to have Elena and Damon spending their summer chasing random leads when Bonnie could just do a spell.

    If she can’t track Stefan for some reason, all they need to do is say so.

    I’m not impressed at all with ‘Stefan the Ripper’. It’s clear that at the moment he’s doing the wrong things for the right reasons (protecting Elena and Damon). He’s not having fun or going wild. He hates what he’s doing and is only trying to protect the people he loves. It’s still noble, heroic, Stefan from Season 1 and 2 at work. He wasn’t really all that different.

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  • Chelsey

    Great recap.  Love Stefan being all rippah!

  • Agnieszka

    I wonder why Bonnie hasn’t used a tracking spell. It can’t be because Stefan is a vampire, because Elena is a doppelgänger, a supernatural being, and so is a vampire.. so there must be another reason? … 
    But I absolutely LOVED the first eps. I saw it twice on the same day! Haha, so glad it’s back<3 It's like Christmas came early :p

  • Cherrie

    Great review! I loved it!

     

    “The Birthday” was a great episode in my opinion. I know
    that some people may not agree but I loved this episode. It may not be my
    favorite but it’s still an amazing episode. 

     

    Tyler/Caroline ► I just love them together. They have such great
    chemistry, but I don’t want them to be just friends with benefits. I want them
    to be a couple but I guess that will happen later in the series. For now I just
    Tyler to save
    Caroline from Carol Lockwood. How does she even know that Caroline is a
    vampire? 

     

    Damon/Elena ► I loved the necklace scene between those two. I
    thought that it was a sweet moment. Also I’m glad that Damon told Elena the
    truth about Stefan. I know that he wanted to protect her from false leads &
    I know he did not want Elena to see what Stefan has really done and what he is
    capable of. He has changed a lot from the Damon we saw back in season 1. Like
    you I’m also wondering if Damon is going to tell Elena about how Andie died
    & it was because of Stefan. Guess we’ll have to wait & see.

     

    Jeremy/Matt ► The whole “I see dead people” thing didn’t really grab
    my attention ONLY because we have no idea what is even going on. All we know is
    that Jeremy sees his dead ex-girlfriends but we have no idea why. When we do
    know I’m sure it’ll grab my attention.

     

    End Scenes ► I didn’t like seeing Alaric leave because it feels as
    though Elena just keeps losing people in her life that she cares about. First
    her parents, then John, Jenna, Stefan, and now Alaric. I know he’s not dead but
    I didn’t want him to leave. When Damon was tearing up Stefan’s room I really
    believe that it was definitely because he misses his brother & that he
    feels guilty about what has happened to Stefan. He knows that Stefan had to
    give himself over to Klaus to save him from the werewolf bite & although
    its not Damon’s fault he gotten bitten (he saved Caroline) he without a doubt feels
    guilty over it.

     

    Stefan/Elena ► When Stefan was calling Elena & she wasn’t even
    in the room I was freaking out I was like “Your phone is ringing! GET THE
    PHONE!” So glad she answered it. That scene was heartbreaking. I was in tears.
    I felt so bad for Stefan. Although he killed Andie & 2 other girls since
    the beginning of the episode it is hard not to feel for him at the end of the
    episode. You can tell he has not yet given over to his true ripper side &
    that he still cares/loves Elena & even Damon. It’s hard for him not to
    care. However, I have a feeling that he will give in into that side of him very
    soon. Nonetheless, it was still a powerful scene. The love between is just so
    evident.

     

    Anyways, I enjoyed 3×01 and is definitely looking forward to 3×02.
    I’m so excited for season 3. It’s going to be great season! (Hopefully) LOVE
    TVD ♥ 

  • Cherrie

    Sorry I have no idea why my post did that. 

  • http://twitter.com/TriniJax Jax Yorke-Westcott

    Welcome back Crissy. I’ve missed your recaps almost as much as I’ve missed the show. As always you picked up on all the salient points and delved into those pesky emotional issues. This is why you are my favourite TVD recapper 

  • deedee173

    Wonderful analysis, Crissy, as always!  How horrible it was to find out what being a “ripper” really means.  It made me think of alcoholics who drink so much they “black out” and act without knowing what they’re doing.  When they come out of the blackout and sometimes find out they’ve done awful things, they feel remorse and the only thing to do is drink again to blot out the memories.  No wonder Stefan tried so hard to stay in control; he knew what he was capable of when he wasn’t.

    I was extremely touched by Damon’s selfless act of returning Elena’s necklace, the only thing she has left of Stefan.  But, OMG, the sexual sparks that flew between them as Damon fastened it on her neck!  It was a very intimate thing to do, what with the touching and the closeness and their looking into each other’s eyes.  And the background song was so perfect!  This scene really had me tearing up. 

    I could go on and on, but will just close by saying that this episode was well worth waiting for.  We’re going to darker places this season, fans, and yes, as someone else posted, it’s going to be a bumpy and thrilling ride.

  • Ginie

    Missed your recaps Crissy but now it’s time for V3!

    I was thinking about something… Shouldn’t Elena have at least a little scar on her neck after Damon bit her? It was sure invisible when he put the necklace around her neck… I asked KW and JP about it but no answers yet. (I guess they’re too busy to answer.)

  • Anonymous

    My 2 cents on the season 3 premiere:

    I know a lot of people have been saying why don’t Elena just have Bonnie do a locator spell to find out where Stefan is. Well in my opinion, if you guys haven’t noticed, Klaus and Stefan are always constantly moving along from town to town, so by the time they have a fixed location on him, wouldn’t both Klaus and Stefan be gone by then? Klaus and Stefan don’t want to be found and are taking measures to stop from being tracked (the scene where the woman goes up to Klaus and tells him Damon is on their tracks).

    I feel like the writers should have given us more on the Jeremy/ex-girlfriends storyline because like last season, they didn’t really explain much. They basically did the same thing of having both Anna and Vicki appear out of the blue and Jeremy trying to figure out what’s going on (for 2 months? is it really taking him that long and has Vicki just been asking for “help” for two months?)

    The Stelena scene was heartbreaking that I held my tears back. Seeing Stefan struggle between his moral side and his ripper side was hard to watch. Although he’s been playing the role of a ripper, we get a glimpse of him at the end of the episode showing that he’s not a full blown ripper yet and is trying to hold on to any good he still has, but it’s a struggle because of the blood making it easier for him to forget about that side of him. As for the call with Elena, I was one of those people who thought she would miss his call and was thinking in my mind, ” GO BACK TO YOUR ROOM AND ANSWER YOUR PHONE.” I think Stefan called Elena to reassure her that he’s alive, but also because he was falling into the dark side and Elena was that glimpse of light of the good side that he desperately wanted to hold onto.

    Love reading your reviews every time and can’t wait for the next episode :)

  • Caroline

    Do you think that Stefan is under compulsion?  The way Klaus ordered him to kill those girls and the way Stefan had to ask the permission to leave the bar…  I’m wondering…

  • Anonymous

    Well I’m guessing her wounds would have healed since she drank vampire blood multiple times :X

  • Williamsnatalie1459

    loved the episode but i wish there was more stefan and elena time…hope they see each other in the next episode…..

  • http://twitter.com/BeccaLeigh002 Becca Leigh

    As usual I am in sync with your observations. Is it too early to crave Love You to Death Season 3? ;)

     Your compelling moment was mine as well, Aaaaghhh!!! Plan B teary eyes! But I finally got relief from all the horror with the glimpse that our Stefan is still in there & has not switched off completely. I am enjoying Ripper Stefan & what Paul Wesley can do but ultimately I need the Stefan we know to find his way back.

     Most shows would end with Stefan & Elena’s call but in true TVD fashion they need to one up themselves with the final out of the blue WTF moment. WHY DO THEY KEEP TORTURING MY CAROLINE??!! 

     Speaking of my favorite Vamp Barbie she rocked this episode. Being honest with Elena about living her life AND sensitive reiterating that of course she should still search for Stefan. I am so proud of her, she is strong & loving. On the flip-side happy to see snarky Caroline back too! Compelling Slutty Sophie & removing the offending dancer all the while chugging her booze. To say she & Tyler have chemistry is an understatement *fans self* the horny species version of Romeo & Juliet was AWESOME. I’d like a side of more please.

     I also want another side of Matt. I am happy to see him in the know as it brings out another side & hopefully he can contribute to the story line in a more real way this season. Plus that love triangle rivals our main 3 in sparks, it’s smoking! 

    I am ditto on your thoughts on Andie, Ric & Jeremy.

    I could go on for days and I shall with friends & online but to sum up. I was very pleased with the birthday. It was incredibly sad but some key points in the story are making me very excited for the direction in Season 3. :D

  • guest

    Stefan is not compelled…or else there’s no point bringing out the Ripper out of him if Klaus compelled him to act like one…

  • B-ball-queen

    i know lots of people are mad that alaric left but he had to. if you think about it, any guardian or parental figure that has lived in the gilbert house has died which means that if alaric would have stayed he would have died too. on another note i know that many of you are stelena fans but i am more of a delena fan so i do hope that damon and elena get together this season because i think it is time that damon gets what he wants for a change. i agree that the jeremy ghost thing was vague and i didnt like that. this episode was so good though i watched it 3 times. cant wait till next week. awesome post.

  • http://twitter.com/iamboobs YASEMIN TURNER

    one thing though, wasnt vicki dressed in a vampire costume when she  was killed? shouldnt she be wearing that?

  • Jay marie

    The Stefan and Elena phone call was probably the best scene of the entire show. Such powerful performances by Paul Wesley and Nina Dobrev. I still have hope for Stelena…
    I’m glad Damon gave her the necklace too

  • RIS.KIS.

     I am not sure if this was said before, but I really enjoyed Damon’s character development in this episode.  Although we might think Damon’s destruction of Stefan’s room as a sign of him giving up on his brother, we can also see how far Damon has come with handling his emotions.  Just 10 episodes ago Damon lost Rose and with that loss Damon resorted back to his old vampire ways to deal with the situation.  I am not saying that Damon has completely changed or will not slip in the future, but to see his frustration and pain over losing Andie and possibly his brother all in one moment is palpable and would certainly would push a number of people over the edge.  However, Damon has grown and is not shying away from his emotions.  It is nice to see how the characters are growing, changing, and have multiple layers.

  • Canderella

    I liked the way Damon put the necklace on. So careful NOT to touch her even a tiny little bit.

  • GermanTVDfan

    Very well pointed out, RIS.KIS. I liked your comment, it was exactly my impression, too, but you can describe it better (I’m not a native english speaking person).
    It was not yet mentionned here, but I also liked so much the short scene during the necklace present: Damon taking the photo of Elena and Stefan and caressing Elena with his thumb.
    And of course the phone call, though I’m a Damon fan. It was so heartbreaking, more than in 2 x 06, I think.

  • dman

    Your English is fine. I don’t know if I would be able to converse in German as well as you do in English. By the way I always enjoy your thoughtful, earnest comments. Greetings from the United States.

  • Aylin

    I want Katherine and Elijah back, i miss them :(
    the episode was very good, i was crying so hard when Stefan called Elena, and i loved the Damon-Elena scenes <3

  • Aylin

    Btw, i’m kinda disappointed about ripper Stefan. He’s still thinking about Elena and Damon. But i know that he will lose it, and i can’t wait to see him like that :D Oh and i love Klaus, he was sooo funny when he forced Ray to drink his blood :D
    Poor Damon, i wish Andie was still alive so he could at least tell her how he’s feeling… first Rose, now Andie…

  • GermanTVDfan

    Your kind words are warming my heart – thanks to you from Munich! I’m  glad that not only TVD is back, but also our community here….

  • Silentlady

    Welcome
    back with your tellingly recaps (I missed it).

    I don’t
    agree that there is a master and slave constellation between Klaus / Stefan. Stefan
    is on blood and he had promised Klaus to follow him out of town.  Klaus knows that Stefan doesn’t break a
    promise furthermore he couldn’t went back home with his bloodthirst.

    What
    happens with Katherine? For her the first precept was/will be to be so far from
    Klaus as possible. So she runs away ….

    It will be nice if our TVD producer had planned
    more Katherine scenes in season 3.

  • Silentlady

    Sorry, I don’t know why this format apears.

  • Paulaclarke

    when can we see the next season on itv2

  • http://twitter.com/LacySOS Phyllis Lacy

    Loved the phone call.  Loved the whole show, but especially that phone call. It was so powerful and heartbreaking.  He knows he’s slipping away but seeing Damon and hearing Elena… so heartbreaking.  So sad for the trio.

    Great recap.

  • http://twitter.com/Cazedmunds Casey Edmunds

    Great critique. Glad we’re back. Phone call between Stefan and Elena was indeed heartbreaking. And I understand why Damon wanted to protect Elena from the truth as he himself is wrestling with the possibility that Stefan is too dark to turn back. Andie’s death was the last straw and he finally accepts and hopes Elena does the same.

    I don’t know but I still favor a Matt-Caroline pairing. She needs some normalcy in her life and (yes) no more sneak attacks on her. Poor girl.

  • Jgarza010172

    At least they haven’t given up on Stefan……glad to see Elena only thinking about saving Stefan, not jumping in bed with Damon…lol

  • Anonymous

    You make a lot of really good and interesting points. I remember after the pre-finale show there was a comment on here (I can’t remember by who) that said they didn’t think Alaric was feeling or showing how he was feeling about Jenna’s death emotionally enough. I fully disagree with that statement, and agree more with you. Alaric’s character is not prone to emotional outbursts, he’s more quiet, pensive, thoughtful. He is obviously devastated. I mean, he got dragged into the supernatural stuff the same as any of the other humans on the show when Isabelle left him to be turned. He lost what he thought was the love of his life to her own desire to be “immortal” and he lost the true love of his life to a sadistic werevamp. He’s likely feeling all kinds of helpless and lost right now.

    I tend to agree with you about the Stefan phone call as well. While the scene was heart-wrenchingly sweet and tragic all at the same time, Stefan is only giving Elena hope where there may not be any. Especially at this point in time. I think that he’ll eventually come back, but not without a fight, and that fight will need to come from somewhere within Stefan. I don’t think there’s anything anyone else can do, especially once he completely gives himself to the blood.

    I am also SUPER interested to see where this ripping of the victims goes. It wouldn’t surprise me if you were right, you have been more than once in the past :)

    This episode got me really excited about the season ahead. It seems as though they are featuring all of the characters more and I am looking forward to learning more about each of them and watching how they deal with all of the twists and turns in the road ahead.

  • Tiffanyw

    Where do Nina and Ian and the rest of the cast hang out in Atlanta?  And also, when is the hiatus.  I would love to got there during the months of filming and “run in’ to them so I can meet them or atleast get a picture? I have googled trying to find out hwere they may live in Atlanta but that is evidently top secret.

  • Emma

    When Vicky asked Jeremy to help her I think she meant help her to get her drunk/high brother home safely. 

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  • Tania Rahman

    ‘The Birthday’ looked like something that could pass for a ‘True Blood’ episode rather than a ‘Vampire Diaries’ episode, packed with violence and gore. I thought that Elena’s so called ‘friends’ were a little hard on her, actually they were pretty unfeeling. The only one who probably had any real reason for telling her to move on was Damon, he’s seen ‘Ripper Stefan’ in action. Elena’s family are dropping like flies, first her parents (adoptive) die in a car crash, then after losing various friends on the way, Vicki, Lexi (almost friend) and Rose (who almost passed for a big sister to her), then her biological parents Isobel and John and finally clueless Aunt Jenna, there’s only Jeremy left. Plus she hasn’t seen Ripper Stefan in action for herself yet.  

    Speaking of Ripper Stefan, yes he’s impressive, but he’s simply Klaus’ little pet. He has to do what he’s told, or Klaus will throw a tantrum. Also, the phone call shows that he didn’t go willingly,he did it to save his brother, and keep Klaus from discovering that Elena is still alive. That means that Klaus has no true allies; Elijah tells Elena that he helped Klaus search for the doppelganger to break the curse because he loved him, but he also sought out the witches’ help to save the doppelganger at the same time. Why? and just what is the Petrova connection to the Original Family anyway. If the first Petrova, Katherine and Elena’s blood can bind or undo the curse and Klaus and Elijah’s father wanted to bind Klaus werewolf side, why? Is their blood mystical? Is there something about the Petrova bloodline we aren’t being told, or the Petrovas themselves. Maybe they set out to destroy the Originals or simply fell foul of them. It seems a little extreme for beings seemingly as powerful as they claim to be. Actually,it seems to be the work of the witches, so again, why would they curse a human family? It looks as though both Katherine and Elena were both around 17 when Klaus came for them so what happens now that Elena is 18? Otherwise, it just seems like a convenient wayfor Elena to be part of the supernatural world herself.

  • Tania Rahman

    There was a lot of debate towards the end of last season as to whether or not Elena was going to become a vampire. The season opener shows why she is still human. Looks like she’s going to become a vampire slayer instead, good on you, Elena. I think she’s done with the whole sacrificing herself to save her friends, especially because Klaus’ ‘two faced older brother’ betrayed them, after manipulating Elena for almost half a series. We all know she’s smart, but then again, so are Stefan and Damon (who never listens to a word she says anyway), so a few fighting skills might be a good idea.Like everyone, I want Elijah to come back, but only at first so he can meet the new, improved vampire slayer Elena, and get a good, long overdue kick in the teeth.