“So even if you made it clear that you don’t want to have anything to do with her anymore, you would hate your brother?”  Yes I would! Because he disrespected me by making a move on my girlfriend. He crossed a line he shouldn’t have and I could never forgive him for that. The reason I’m so adamant about this is because that’s not something I would do. You don’t screw around with your brother’s girlfriend or his wife. You. Just. Don’t. Do it. It’s the ultimate form of disrespect to a man.

“Why shouldn’t she have fun with both of the brothers?” We clearly have different mindsets in terms of viewing people. Whether it’s a television show or real life, I don’t believe in sharing relationships. Either I’m involved with someone or I’m not. There’s no way I would want some other man even touching my girlfriend. In fact, the less male friends she has the better I sleep at night. Ha! She can have all the girlfriends she wants, but men, ah…no.

Elena, at-least not yet, isn’t the type of person that’s going to have “fun” with both brothers. She’s too moral for that. And I’m glad she’s like that because I don’t want her ending up like Katherine. Playing both brothers against each other and essentially ruining their relationship. Trust me, that’s not fun from a man’s perspective because like I said, we’re very territorial and we don’t like sharing you with anyone. Things like that can escalate into violence and we sometimes do things we regret all in the name of “love”. I certainly don’t want to see history repeating itself, especially the ways things were in 1864.

Damon Salvatore, you are flawless to me!!! Sorry Stefan, u are just meh and such a dick!

OK- let’s leave Elena out of this one for a second….considering that Stefan was telling everyone that he didn’t care, wasn’t going to care, and definitely didn’t want to care about anything ever again, I see no reason why Damon would think telling Stefan he kissed Stefan’s ex would matter to Stefan at all. Heck, I’m glad something got through to Stefan. And if all it took was one little, teeny, tiny kiss, than what I think is that someone should have thought to do it a lot sooner.

It’s not about trust. If you go back and take the entire series into consideration, I think both brothers have managed to do things to each other which would cause either one of them or both of them to not trust the other. And somehow, someway, the boys always manage to rise above it.

Just like Stefan… 

Well, Stefan trusted Elena’s judgement back then because he loved and respected her (he still does but now Stefan knows that Elena’s plans don’t usually work out well and his does) Also, the fact that Stefan now knows that Elijah will always pick family first, just like he would and did so he can see the similarities and loyalties; more than Damon could. Yes, Damon is right that Elijah will be pissed but he will forgive and work with Klaus against Stefan and Damon, if he can get his family back and besides, the Scooby Gang killed him a few times so I can’t exactly blame him for not trusting them and yes, Klaus did kill him but Elijah isn’t exactly innocent but they both want their family back and reunited without any interruptions from younger vamps. 

I can’t blame Stefan for not trusting Elijah since he betrayed them and lead him to this destructive path and I can see why and understand that Stefan is majorly pissed at Elijah for screwing him and the rest of gang over and then Klaus making a mess of his life. And now it’s going to get complicated since we don’t know who to trust and what’s going to happen but I stick with the Salvatore Bros since the Original brothers are very sneaky and devious, and more evil in general; still can’t help rooting for them as well since I can understand their motives as well for doing what they are doing.

I like the reversal of this situation though but Damon please trust your brother over Elijah (I hope he was just bluffing as he usually does) and Damon is becoming Stefan 2.0 please don’t be going making deals with Elijah and/or Klaus and getting your ass kicked and betrayed again, which by the looks of it is happening and poor Stefan is involved, despite him not wanting to and now Klaus is trying to burn his hand off. WTF?! Klaus is a major psycho but I still love him, however Stefan’s hand must remain intact since he will need it to dance with Elena in the next episode :D Stelena and Damon will be hooking up with a hot vampire (I hope it’s Katherine, since that will be awkward and make Elena extra jealous, in contrast to Rebekah or someone else) I can’t wait!

No, but I don’t want Katherine to die (she has a lot of fans so I hope not!) and Elena’s character will be destroyed for the most part since I can’t see her being too Katherine like, that’s what makes her unique and that is why both brothers love her because she is a good, caring, selfless etc. person and Elena brings it out of them as well so it would be strange but you never know. It would make for good TV for Delena fans but other than that, I don’t see it being realistic since I don’t think she will become so attached to Damon without giving a rats ass about anyone else since everything about her personality including her attraction to Damon will be amplified and she still loves Stefan as a human, and that will be magnified also, so in technical terms, the situation would be even more confusing for Elena since she will have to deal with the emotional and physical aspect of becoming a vampire; let alone start a relationship with Damon!

Everything you said is right, from a woman’s perspective. Unfortunately, men don’t really think like that. Everything is a competition for us and sometimes that competition extends into the love arena. Yes, love cannot be force or taken, but it can be competed for. And that competition happens every day. It’s going on now between Stefan and Damon on the Vampire Diaries.

You’re missing the point but that’s ok.  I just think people are to fixated on there ship to see what’s going on.  nite

Damon went crying about Elena to anyone who would listen (true point now that I think about it), like Jessica and Rose etc. (even Elena herself but he compelled her) but anyway Stefan didn’t bad-mouth Damon, he just stated the truth in what he saw Damon do. Damon wasn’t a good guy and he certainly didn’t show it to Stefan, even if he was, so what was he suppose to do? Lie? and say that’s he a good guy, despite at the time, he was killing people for the sake of it and trying to get off with his girl.

Besides, Stefan has showed many times, through action and through words that he loves his brother, ever since 1864, except Damon always seems to put girls before his brother, first Katherine and now Elena (he’s improving but still a long way to go), whilst Stefan always puts Damon first and still does but Damon is ungrateful and I hope he shows some love towards Stefan by letting Elena go, after everything he has done for him but who knows? Poor Stefan feels betrayed by Damon and I can understand why. Damon shouldn’t have kissed Elena, especially after finding out that Stefan saved him again. Dick move and shows that all he cares about are his needs and happiness… except for Elena, he’ll do anything for his sweet love. How selfless. And Stefan gave up everything for those two and this is what he gets back; trust me, it’s not black and white but from Stefan’s perspective it doesn’t look great and he’s disappointed in Damon, not Elena since she told him the truth and really didn’t owe him anything, especially after the horrible things he did (for good reason but it ended up badly for both of them) so it’s very complicated. Stefan, I think wishes that he chose Elena before Damon since she’s more loyal and trustworthy than him but Stefan, being who he is will always pick family, no matter what, just like Elijah (the reason why he can’t trust him, since he knows that Elijah’s loyalty will always lie with Klaus if he had to decide and since Elijah betrayed them and led Stefan to where he is now, alone, bitter and angry at what has happened to him; Stefan is smarter now to know the enemy rather than make face-value judgements like Damon) 

Exactly and do we really care how they met/fell in love with Elena? It happened in whichever way and they both love her and she loves them back. And to mention killing etc. is stupid since they both have done that and it’s inevitable and in a vampire’s lifestyle/history to do so. therefore, it’s not really fair to judge upon that. 

Yes, Elena should have legged it and she did but not for long since she fell in with Stefan and is falling for Damon as well. But, this is TVD and not real life, but some would be more than willingly to be with vamps (not me, since I would be freaked as hell but others fans wouldn’t mind, I’m sure!)

Luv ya too VAMPLOVER.  Our guys do make us smile….alot.  

That would be freaking awesome…

You’re welcome again, DianaPauline, it seems as if we had the same taste in music! I like sharing my favourites with people who feel the same.

Hi dman, we probably do not really have different mindsets in terms of
viewing people. I´m absolutely with you on the point about sharing
relationsships. That´s something that does not work at all in real life
and it´s absolutely nothing for me either. I don´t want to get people to
have the wrong impression about my moral standards. There is nothing
more disgusting than playing people against each other no matter if they
are men or women and especially not if those people are family. So if
there was a woman trying to poach in my preserve( I´m talking about my
husband) I´d scratch her eyes out.
And I´m actually pleased to read
that there are guys out there who say there is a line no one should
cross and that is messing around with your brother´s girlfriend

The
thing is only: This is a TV show and I partly watch it to escape my
stressful everyday life (with three children, homework job, house, mum
at hospital …) wich I really love but which is exhausting sometimes.
So whenever Damon has fun on the screen I have too because I love the
character, even if it is not compatible with my actual standard of
everyday moral.

So well stated – as always, Iansfan! Completely agree with you!

O.m.g. they sound sooooo desperate ur right!! Elena sounded pretty spooked too. This is gonna be agood great episode
On Jan 29, 2012 7:23 AM, “Disqus”

I’m not missing the point, I understand what your saying. You’re saying that the brotherly bond was broken because the “trust” between the Salvatores has been broken because of Damon’s act of kissing Stefan’s ex. I’m flat out saying it hasn’t. If you look back over the entire series, both boys have done things to each other that should have broken their bond and it hasn’t. They’ve managed to rise above it and their brotherly bond has remained intact. The boys disagree and flat out fight because of the different way they see things, but at the end of the day, they are still brothers and both of them know that. The way they  approach things are just different because each has his own personality, and that’s as it should be:)

One of my personal favorite fan videos like ever: Love, that’s the point. It has some of my all time favorite scenes, with some of my all time favorite scripts…and let’s just say there is a little something for everyone in it;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zoiz0f8_wfw&feature=youtu.be

wow, that´s intense, some of the best and most touching scenes from TVD! That gives me goosebumps.

That´s a smart move. Klaus knows for sure that Damon would never sacrifice his brother´s life. So Damon can emotionally be blackmailed and will give the coffin back. Hopefully that´s after Bonnie managed to open it.
What rule can there be in a love triangle? I hope the Salvatores manage to fight together for Elena and not against each other over Elena!

You’re welcome:) 

Umm…both Stefan and Damon saying they love Elena…uh oh.  Ok, I’ve been waiting for Elijah’s return and love the guy.  BUT, if he and Klaus decide to gang up and try and kick Stefan and Damon’s ass…. or worse…bye Elijah…see ya Klaus. Klaus you arrogant ass…”I can’t be killed”….umm…we’ll see about that.    Stefan and Damon may have there ups and downs when it comes to many many  things.  However, there is no way that either of them would see the other killed.  Cannot wait to see Stefan and Damon  fight together and kick Klaus and Elijah’s ass!

See? a childish Demon’s fan…Thanks for proving my point, Ha!

The episode your looking for is The Last Day;)

ok… thank you so much…